Referral requests by email or LinkedIn?
The plain trade-offs between asking by email and asking on LinkedIn, with a short template for each.
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Both work. The better choice depends on how you know the person and where they are likely to see your message. This is general advice rather than a rule, and people differ.
- Good when you do not have their email, or you are reaching out to someone you have only just found.
- Connection notes are short, so keep the first message to a sentence or two and send details once they reply.
- Your profile is one click away, so make sure it is up to date first.
Hi [name], I'm interested in the [role] at [company] and noticed you work in [team]. Would you be open to a quick chat about it? Thank you.
- Good when you already know the person, or when they have shared their email for this purpose.
- You have room for a fuller request, and you can attach your CV.
- A clear subject line matters, because it decides whether the email gets opened.
Subject: Referral request: [role] at [company]. Hi [name], I'm applying for [role] and have attached my CV and the job link. Would you be comfortable referring me? No pressure if not.
Whichever you choose
Stick to one channel at a time so you do not seem to be chasing. Only use contact details that are public or that the person has given you for this purpose, and respect a no or a lack of reply.
Put it into practice
Write a subject lineTry a free tool
- Email subject line helper · Five clear subject lines for a referral request, follow-up or thank-you email.
- Referral message generator · A polite request, follow-up or thank-you you can edit and send.
Guides on this site were last updated on 17 Oct 2026. This is general information, not advice for your situation.
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