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Cheat sheet

How to ask for a referral, on one page

Four steps, in order. Print it or keep it open while you work. General advice, and every employer works a little differently.

1. Get ready

  • Read the job description and pick one specific role.
  • Check your CV and LinkedIn match it.
  • Decide who to ask first.

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2. Send a short message

  • Name the role and why you fit, in two or three sentences.
  • Attach your CV and link the job.
  • Make it easy to say no.

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3. Follow up once or twice

  • Wait about a week, then send one polite nudge.
  • After a second nudge, let it go and ask someone else.
  • Keep a simple log of who you asked and when.

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4. Say thank you

  • Thank your referrer, whatever the outcome.
  • Tell them how it goes.
  • Stay in touch.

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Do you refer people? See the cheat sheet for employees.

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On Doorstep, employees say which roles they refer for. You apply once and get an answer with a reason, even when it’s a no.

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